Throughout the Bible there are many individuals mentioned. Some are discussed over many chapters and books. Others are only mentioned once or twice in a short passage. Imagine having a reference of you in Gods’ Word!
One of those lightly mentioned, but often discussed is the Samaritan woman at the well in John 4:27-30.
John 4: 27-30
27) And at this point His disciples came, and they marveled that He had been speaking with a woman; yet no one said “What do You seek?” or, “Why do You speak with her?”
28) So the woman left her waterpot, and went into the city, and said to the men,
29) “Come, see a man who has told me all the things I have done; this is not the Christ, is it?”
30) They went out of the city, and were coming to Him.
As a summary of events, Jesus is waiting at a well for the disciples to bring food. A woman came out to draw water. Could be for her family, or to take back to another family for hire. (doesn’t matter really) This well is where life sustaining water for the community is found.
Jesus asks her to draw water for Him. This is not something which would normally have happened. A Jew speaking with a lowly Samaritan! And a woman no less….. It was enough that these disciples who had seen many marvelous things marveled that He would be conversing with a woman. She was also shocked that He would speak with her.
Note some high points:
Jesus introduced Himself as Christ 4:26) “I that speak to thee am He.”
Told her of living water 4:13,14 “shall never thirst again”
Left her water pot She perceived He was a prophet because He tells her of her lifestyle issues. (many husbands and now living in adultery.) There was a sense of urgency about her message. In dropping her water pot and going back into town, she showed that she was convinced of the living water and it’s power. Or, that she was convicted such that she went into town hastily so the opportunity of the message would not pass. Either way, this meant an extra trip to Jacobs’ Well no matter what.
Went to her own community Note that she went to her own. A woman with very little credibility in the community went first to them. She was a sinner. She had five husbands and now was with another man. The community knew her and many know how she lived. She was a woman and had little to offer the men of the community.
“Come see a man who told me all things I ever did. Can this be the Christ?”
Please see that she simply asked a question. I doubt that if she had taken any other means, many would not have wanted to check it out. A woman telling me what to do!?
Instead she simply told what had happened and asked a leading question….. “Can this be the Christ?” She peaked their curiosity and then stepped back.
Many of the town went to check this out and believed.
Who was this woman?
Knew only of prophesy of Christ
Very little, if any, credibility. (5 husbands + 1 not)
In Short…. An “unlikely evangelist”
Who are WE?
Much better position than this woman socially
Probably more credibility, and knowledge
We have the whole Word of God in our hands
We can look at our mission to bring The Word to the lost as marching orders and our task to fulfill. Or we can simply show the joy of what we have found in Jesus and bring people to Him. This unlikely evangelist was extremely effective. No program, no budget, no committees, no plans…. Just…..
“Come see a man who told me all the things I ever did, could this be the Christ? “
No reason to make it complicated…. Plant seeds.
The earthquakes in Nepal are a huge tragedy. The story is still unfolding as we speak. One thousand, No, three thousand dead. Tens of thousands injured, displaced, or in shock.
I’m sure that the fine people of Nepal are struggling to see any good in this event. But if we take a look from the throne of The Creator, then maybe we see that some good can come of any tragedy.
We used to call a near miss accident a “rapid dose of mortality.”
Man gets complacent in the world, and begins to feel he has all the time in the universe to get his affairs in order.
An earthquake, tornado, or car accident may jolt us back to the reality of how short life is. It reminds us to seek fervently the things which really count….. our souls, the souls of our loved ones, and even our “enemies.”
I hurt for those suffering in Nepal and their families. I hurt more for those still living who will quickly forget the value of their soul salvation, and “chill” until the next big event.
I have heard that there are no atheists in foxholes. When in harms’ way, man will often reach out, even in desperation, to a creator he is not familiar with. Then when the danger is gone…. so is the reaching out.
Don’t wait for the next great tragedy to think about your soul and its’ condition.
The Sacrificial Life
One of the skills of a good leader is to be able to set clear expectations. It is essential that a leader be able to explain what is expected of others and teach them how to be successful.
If I tell my gardener to trim the hedges. And that’s all I say. He might go and take one leaf off of the plant and say… “I trimmed the hedges.”
If I say show him how I want them to look when finished, then he will know what to do to meet my expectations.
If he has trimmed my hedges properly in the past, then he may understand what I mean by the command because he has learned my nature in the matter.
When Paul says: I beseech you (urge, exhort) bretheren, by the mercies of God
Romans 12:1 . . . to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service.
How wonderful it is that given such a huge directive, God takes the time to tell us how to achieve it.
The whole of the New Testament is full of commands and examples of what the living sacrifice is and how to master it.
In order to be living sacrifices we must:
1: Change The Mind / Heart
(Rom 12:2) And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Phil 2:5 Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus:
We can’t have the selfish, lustful mind of man anymore.
(Rom 12:3) For I say, through the grace that was given me, to every man that is among you, not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think; but to think as to think soberly, according as God hath dealt to each man a measure of faith.
2: Change Your Relationship To Those Around You
Satan has convinced those around us that the world revolves around each of them. He has developed a narcissistic attitude and teaches in schools, the media, and even in many churches that “It’s all about you”
It’s all about Jesus!
Our Creator knows that we need one another. The creator of my body uses it to illustrate the Church. Jesus’ body.
We NEED each other: Satan want us to think we can do it alone…. So we will fail in weakness.
In verses 4-8 Paul tells us that we are all members of one body. Many different skills, talents, energy levels, experience, etc. He urges us to work as a single unit. A single body.
The head can’t be fighting with the feet or the lungs. All have to work toward the same purpose to survive.
6) We should focus on and use our particular gift. Not look down on or berate those with less talent. (counter productive)
(Rom 12:10) In love of the brethren be tenderly affectioned one to another; in honor preferring one another;
(Gal 5:13) For ye, brethren, were called for freedom; only use not your freedom for an occasion to the flesh, but through love be servants one to another.
(Gal 5:14) For the whole law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself.
(Mar 12:30) and thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength.
(Mar 12:31) The second is this, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
Phil 2:3 . . . let each one esteem each other better than yourselves.
Philostorge’ (tenderly affectioned) Is only here in the New Testament. It seems like a conjunction of two types of love. It is the definition of extending your family by your actions.
A Little about Love:
Agape’ is the love that can be commanded. It is the “inspite of “sacrificial, unconditional love that Jesus tells us to love one another.
John 13:34 “A new commandment I give to you that you love one another as I have loved you.
Phileo and Storge’ are types of love which would normally be naturally occurring.
Phileo, the brotherly love is illustrated best by David and Jonathon. It occurs among the best of friends. Each seeking the best for the other.
1 Sam 18:3 “After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself. . . . And Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself”
Storge’ the type of love one might have for family or a spouse. It is also naturally occurring. It can grow. It is the mark of brotherhood. It might be illustrated by the relationship of Mary, Martha and Lazarus.
Philostorge becomes a commanded form of naturally occurring love. Tenderly affectionate. Paul is saying to take fellow Christians into your family and treat them as best friends should.
It is a blessing if a marriage contains two who can experience all four types of love. Phileo, Storge’, eros, and Agape’
Paul urges us to develop three types between us. Phileo, Storge’, and Agape’
Our love to each other should be multidimensional.
3: Change your actions to complete 1 & 2
We have the power to change our behavior to comply with God’s will. It is a decision we make and put into action.
(Rom 12:11) in diligence not slothful; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord;
I can only think of Eccl. 9:10. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might.
Those who do their best often glow brilliantly at work, school, sports, etc.
If we are not slothful in Bible study, prayer, and our service to others, then that living sacrifice will shine brightly in all we do.
(Rom 12:12) rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing stedfastly in prayer;
(Rom 12:13) communicating to the necessities of the saints; given to hospitality.
(Rom 12:14) Bless them that persecute you; bless, and curse not.
(Rom 12:15) Rejoice with them that rejoice; weep with them that weep.
(Rom 12:17) Render to no man evil for evil. Take thought for things honorable in the sight of all men.
(Rom 12:18) If it be possible, as much as in you lieth, be at peace with all men.
(Rom 12:19) Avenge not yourselves, beloved, but give place unto the wrath of God: for it is written, Vengeance belongeth unto me; I will recompense, saith the Lord.
(Rom 12:20) But if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him to drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire upon his head.
(Rom 12:21) Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.
To live the Sacrificial Life, we must:
1: Change The Mind / Heart
2: Change Your Relationship To Those Around You
3: Change your actions to complete 1 & 2
(Philippians 3:13) Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
I notice that when I get into high gear spiritually, the deceiver tries to remind me of my past. He tries to make me regret and mope over those I could have taught. He reminds me of my sinful past. He reminds me of my failures.
I don’t think Satan would bother if this method were not effective. The more time I spend contemplating things I can’t fix, the less time I have to focus on spiritual growth and serving others. Thankfully, as I have matured spiritually, I can bring myself quickly to remember the blood of Jesus and the great sacrifice that was made so I can be forgiven of those “human” moments.
Paul writes to Philippi that he (who persecuted God’s people, who held the coats of those who stoned Stephen) could forget those things and could press on without the anchor chain of guilt.
(Philippians 3:14) I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.
If we are to grow, we need to put it all behind us. Satan will do his best to drag us down in guilt.
Trust God to forgive. Then Press on.
I took this photo on a still night somewhere near 1980 in the Yaquina Bay in Newport, Oregon. In the dark it looked like a body had washed into the bay and rested near the dock. With the flash, the photo looks quite a bit different than it did under the mercury lighting in the bay. It’s like someone reaching to me out of space, parting a galaxy or two.
This reminds me of a text.
(2 Peter 1:3) According as his divine power hath given unto us all things that pertain unto life and godliness, through the knowledge of him that hath called us to glory and virtue:
And (2 Peter 3:9) The Lord is not slack concerning his promise, as some men count slackness; but is longsuffering to us-ward, not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance.
God wants everyone to be saved…. We hear someone pray that God will save them, but he already has placed this plan in motion. All we have to do is act on it. Don’t misunderstand me. We can’t do anything to earn our salvation. It is all the working of God through the death and resurrection of Jesus. We do need to obey Him to receive that blessing.
Consider the hand. Maybe you can picture in your mind God, reaching down to catch the hands of men on Earth to save them. All we have to do is reach up to grab it and hold on. If we ignore the hand , , , we perish.
He doesn’t want any to perish, but instead, to come to repentance. Which is necessary for salvation.
He asks us to hear His Gospel, believe what we hear, and that He is who He is and has done, and will do what He says He will do. Repent of our sins, Confess Him as the Son of God.
He then tells us to be baptized… (Act 2:38) Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost.
This is how we reach out to His hand.
“For they shall be comforted” (don’t worry, I will get to the point)
Awareness is a key to any relationship. We need to know each other. What pushes your button or what triggers a negative emotion. We don’t want to walk on eggshells in a relationship, so learning these things helps us to change our behavior to be in comfort with another.
Every relationship or group dynamic goes through phases as it grows. Form, Storm, Norm, and Perform. A couple gets together and starts getting to know each other. Likes, dislikes, key words that cause frowns, etc. Sometimes the learning process has some conflict involved. (storming)
Once you know each other and have avoided behavior which is unpleasant to the other, or polished the stuff they like, you can reach an equilibrium and even work as a couple, better than the sum of two individuals. (performing)
Hopefully, we have reached the norming or performing stage in our relationship with our God. We no longer have to walk on eggshells, because through study of His Word and communicating with Him (prayer) we know what pleases Him and alter our behavior to conform to His will.
Sadly, many are still and will probably remain at the “forming” stage. Many have begun a relationship with Him, but have not invested in our knowledge of what He desires of our relationship. Maybe there is no communication with Him.
Some have advanced to the “storming” phase and are struggling with changing their behavior to comply with His will.
Even those who are “performing” will occasionally fail. This is when the relationship with our God is damaged by sin. The “performing” christian will notice the damaged relationship and lament the loss of trust, then struggle to restore the relationship.
An example is Peter during Jesus’ trial. As soon as the rooster crowed, he knew the relationship was damaged. He wept bitterly. Blessed are those who mourn…. Peter mourned over his failure. He took it personally and immediately set out to fix it.
If we are able to sin and not really worry about it, then perhaps we have never cemented the relationship. Possibly, still “forming.”
You can only sit on the edge so long. Every relationship takes work and sacrifice. No different is our relationship to our God.
He lamented so much the relationship broken by the sin of man, that he sent His Son to make it right. He has done His part. Time for us to do ours.
Many place the value of a gift in its cost to the giver. The New Testament in the Bible gives an account where the Messiah saw a widow give her last two coins at an offering. Others were giving great sums out of their surplus but she gave all that she had. (Mark 12:38-44) It’s not the quantity, but the heart that determines the sacrifice.
Mar 12:43) And he called unto him his disciples, and saith unto them, Verily I say unto you, That this poor widow hath cast more in, than all they which have cast into the treasury: :44) For all they did cast in of their abundance; but she of her want did cast in all that she had, even all her living.
As we attempt to lead our families, we have a gift available to give that actually cost us very little. Even though it is inexpensive, and we all have it in abundance, it can be a life altering gift for the one who receives.
That precious gift is Encouragement. It often only takes a second of our time. It doesn’t take a great deal of ability or planning. This gift has prevented; suicides, failed marriages, failed exams, lost battles, failed self-image, lost souls.
Properly placed, Encouragement can propel an athlete above their perceived potential. It can give confidence to a spirit teetering on the ledge of self-doubt. It can help an unemployed husband and father continue to try. It can soothe a young mother who is “great with child” and feeling ugly and fat.
What a powerful tool!
Heb 10:24) and let us consider one another to provoke unto love and good works;
:25) not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as ye see the day drawing nigh.
Can you imagine the effect on the world if everyone chose to encourage instead of berate? If everyone conspired of ways to encourage another instead of plotting to beat them down by competition.
It can take the simplest form.
“I appreciate your attitude.” “You did a great job on the customer invitations. It’s the type of mail I would look forward to open and read.”
I was talking to a customer who had waited too long for her service to work. She was patient but not happy. After I took steps to solve her issue, I took a second to comment on her voice quality. I don’t hear very well over the phone, and I noted that I had no issue understanding her. I have never met this lady, but
Take a minute each day to encourage someone. A simple phrase, card, note, email, text, or call can really make someones day. Remember, tell the truth.. Pick someone who looks down, or has looked down. Look for something good in them. (Hebrews 10;24)